Starting to dislike everyone..

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Is it normal to start hating everyone after a miscarriage? Like every pregnant woman i see i just think to myself she doesnt deserve that baby...I have stopped talking to anyone with a baby... I can't stand anybody...im ignoring everyone. and im getting annoyed at everything. I want to just go away from all people.. i dont even call my family very much. Im just sick of crappy thingy always happening to me... WHY ME? and why anyone else going through this....WHY US? I hate for anyone to have this happen or any of the rest of the crap i went through/going through today. Why do good people always suffer..

 
By Monica5 on Sat, 02-25-12, 21:15

Its ok that you are feeling the way you do. I have been going through a lot of crap lately too. I have asked myself that same question many of times. I thought things was getting better. It is so heart breaking to lose a child, I still sometime cry and wonder how they would look and how old they will be. I see children the age they would be and it makes me sad all over again. Bad thing just happenn to good people. I'm so so Sorry this is happening to you...

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Mo

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By corky131 on Sun, 02-26-12, 21:39

I'm 29 and have had 2 miscarriages the first one one I was young and it didn't bother me as bad. Now I am married and have a wonderful husband of 3 years we have been trying to get prego for what seems to be forever. It finally happened, 6 weeks along and my Dr sent me for some bloodwork and I got the phonecall while at work saying we lost it. Now I just feel empty I have no motivation to do anything, including everyday task around the house. I get mad at other mothers to be my husband when he tries to kiss me or hold me I het mad when people ask me how I'm doing I always reply I'm ok but truly I'm not. I don't know how to deal with this I just feel like I'm walking around lost

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By vcusell on Mon, 02-27-12, 10:37

i know what you mean. i just had my 3rd miscariage within 11month. i hate everyone i see with a baby. my husband and i would of beengreat parents but instead u got tons of people who have kids and dont even want them and it just seens so unfair

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By Firsttimemom2012 on Tue, 02-28-12, 10:56

Hi Dill,

Yes, it's so hard to be around pregnant people or see them when you've just lost your own baby. It's especially hard when you see people popping out babies left and right and all your hoping for is just one. It just seems so unfair that they seem to have no problems with pregnancy and out comes baby like it's just another day. The other things that hurt are when people just seem to accidentally become pregnant while others are trying to have a baby but have difficulty. I wish everyone above the best of luck and as I hope to have a healthy pregnancy and baby I wish that god blesses you all with a healthy pregnancy and baby as well the next time around.

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By KH_Momma on Fri, 03-02-12, 10:46

I'm feeling the EXACT SAME WAY Hun! It just kills me to see preg women, newborns and announcements. I'm on FB and it seems that EVERYONE is either posting that they're preg, belly pics, ultrasound pics, sex of the baby announcements and that they're being induced b/c they can't stand being preg anymore b/c it's making them miserable. I'd LOVE to be miserably preg right now! It hurts sooooooooo bad to have lost my baby! We would've been finding out the sex of our baby this month..I just hope and pray that we ALL are able to heal f/m our losses and become preg VERY SOON!
Love, prayers, hugs and kisses to all!!!!!!

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