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I just lost my third baby. I have never made it past the first six weeks. Ectopic pregnancy three times. I am happily married for almost 8 yrs. We want a baby so badly. I am going to turn 40 this year and feel so lost. I am afaird it is too late. I feel like a failure and that no one understands how low I feel. I have completely pulled away from most of my friends with kids. I resent them, even though logically I know it is not their fault. You never notice how much people talk about their kids until you want one and cannot have one. I feel isolated and sad. I do not know how to pull out of this depression. This past week was my first week back at work and it was so hard to get up out of bed. People look at me with this sad look on their face and I do not know what to say or do.

 
By vcusell on Mon, 02-27-12, 10:27

i know what your going thru. I just had my 3rd miscariage 6 days ago. My husband and i have been trying to have a baby of our own and we have lost 3 babies in the last 10 months. its soo hard. im going to be turning 27 this year and all my friends have kids. I hate everyone i see with children, and i am hurting so bad ive been pulling away from everyone, even my husband who is trying to be there for me. every pregnancy ive had i lost the first 2 at 7 weeks and the thrid one at 8 weeks. im so sorry for your loss. i know how it feels. just hang in there

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